A warm, clear companion for the first year with a baby — feeding, crying, safe sleep, a baby who is unwell, first foods and a home made safe — and for the feelings that come with it, from the baby blues to postnatal depression and anxiety, told through one new mother's diary.
The first year with your baby, one diary page at a time: the care, the feelings and the help that is there.
The first night at home, the first bath, the first real smile, the first cold, the first spoonful of food, the first wobbling steps. The first year with a baby is full of firsts, and full of feelings too: tears without a reason, deep tiredness, worry that will not switch off, and days that stay grey for longer than expected.
This book follows one family through that year. Every chapter opens with pages from a new mother's diary, honest and warm, and then explains in calm, clear words what doctors, midwives and nurses tell new parents about that stage: recovery after the birth, feeding with breast milk, infant formula or both, crying and calming, safe sleep, the baby blues, postnatal depression and anxiety, frightening thoughts that come uninvited, a hard birth that stays in the mind and the feelings of the other parent.
Later chapters turn to a baby who is unwell, first foods, a home made safe for a crawling baby, going back to work and the first birthday. Every chapter ends with a checklist of things to prepare for the weeks ahead, and the book shows clearly when to call a doctor, a midwife or the emergency number.
After reading this book, you will be able to…
- Understand the usual changes of the first year, for your baby and for yourself
- Feed, calm, bathe and put your baby to sleep safely, and make your home safe as your baby begins to move
- Tell the baby blues from a low mood that stays, and know how and where to ask for help early
- Recognise the signs in your baby and in yourself that mean calling a doctor or the emergency number
- Share the care and the night as a team, and prepare step by step for each new stage of the year